They just deleted first and asked questions never, which means anybody with a grudge can do that to you for the hell of it.

Sounds like one of the inherently problematic aspects of running a huge site: nobody available to actually check out what's being reported. I mean, I can see why they would do it when it came to things that could get them in legal trouble (i.e. a 'better safe than sorry' mentality), but it seems rather obvious that people with grudges will falsely report something if they think it will work.